Comments on: The silent sufferer speaks http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/ I was blind but now I see... Thu, 04 Mar 2010 07:24:12 +0800 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 By: ablogaway http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-19525 ablogaway Thu, 17 Apr 2008 12:23:17 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-19525 I can't help agreeing with Paik Ling. That's what I'll do too, stop mingling with them. Coz once hurt, it's really hard to forget even though we have forgiven them. <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: True...thanks for your insight.</strong> I can’t help agreeing with Paik Ling. That’s what I’ll do too, stop mingling with them. Coz once hurt, it’s really hard to forget even though we have forgiven them.

The Giddy Tigress says: True…thanks for your insight.

]]> By: Giddy Tigers » Mystical superhero fantasy http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-18821 Giddy Tigers » Mystical superhero fantasy Fri, 11 Apr 2008 13:29:33 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-18821 [...] Sworn enemy Hypocrites.  With this super power of mine, I can shape shift into anything I want just so I can find out [...] [...] Sworn enemy Hypocrites.  With this super power of mine, I can shape shift into anything I want just so I can find out [...]

]]> By: Tiny Tapir http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-18332 Tiny Tapir Mon, 07 Apr 2008 07:37:22 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-18332 yes, it's hard to tell who is our friend and who is not in this world. But I just do my best to be the best I can be - for myself. I try not to rely too much on 'friends' or to have high expectations, because at the end of the day, it's just easier to rely on oneself! But of course, must still be forgiving and kind - must avoid falling into the 'cynical' trap. Good luck! <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: You are so right. Some *friends* appear to be friends on the outside but behind your back, they are really really not.</strong> yes, it’s hard to tell who is our friend and who is not in this world. But I just do my best to be the best I can be – for myself. I try not to rely too much on ‘friends’ or to have high expectations, because at the end of the day, it’s just easier to rely on oneself! But of course, must still be forgiving and kind – must avoid falling into the ‘cynical’ trap.

Good luck!

The Giddy Tigress says: You are so right. Some *friends* appear to be friends on the outside but behind your back, they are really really not.

]]> By: Paik Ling http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17873 Paik Ling Fri, 04 Apr 2008 02:59:00 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17873 I usually just avoid such people and let God judge them. Too bad lah for them if they want to behave this way. <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: Your suggestion is a good one. :)</strong> I usually just avoid such people and let God judge them. Too bad lah for them if they want to behave this way.

The Giddy Tigress says: Your suggestion is a good one. :)

]]> By: Andie Summerkiss http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17629 Andie Summerkiss Wed, 02 Apr 2008 17:03:40 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17629 I feel much better after I forgive. Don't get me wrong, I can really swear when somebody do any kind of injustices towards me or my family and my love ones. After swearing, then it is time to forgive. :) <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: Forgiveness does that to us all the time. I don't swear but if you really really make me angry, I just might. But forgiveness heals everything. That's what God taught us.</strong> I feel much better after I forgive. Don’t get me wrong, I can really swear when somebody do any kind of injustices towards me or my family and my love ones. After swearing, then it is time to forgive. :)

The Giddy Tigress says: Forgiveness does that to us all the time. I don’t swear but if you really really make me angry, I just might. But forgiveness heals everything. That’s what God taught us.

]]> By: rinnah http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17618 rinnah Wed, 02 Apr 2008 13:20:49 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17618 I am confused after reading LB's comment... Lawl. I have a lot of problems forgiving people who hurt me and generally even after I do, I don't forget. Not good for my pysche, but I can't seem to make myself let go. Hope all is right in your world and that you are okay. Hugs, rinnah <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: So am I...confused, that is. He has the gift to confuse people with his words. I guess I have the same forgiving and not forgetting problem like you. Thanks for the concern and hugs dearie...just my way of getting it off my chest, albeit in a not-so-subtle manner. SIGH</strong> I am confused after reading LB’s comment… Lawl.

I have a lot of problems forgiving people who hurt me and generally even after I do, I don’t forget. Not good for my pysche, but I can’t seem to make myself let go.

Hope all is right in your world and that you are okay.

Hugs, rinnah

The Giddy Tigress says: So am I…confused, that is. He has the gift to confuse people with his words. I guess I have the same forgiving and not forgetting problem like you. Thanks for the concern and hugs dearie…just my way of getting it off my chest, albeit in a not-so-subtle manner. SIGH

]]> By: LB http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17607 LB Wed, 02 Apr 2008 11:52:56 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17607 oops, typo there already.. that last bit was NEVER forgive NOR forget! <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: Oh yeah, this clarification kinda makes your comment clearer...like mud-clear. heh.</strong> oops, typo there already.. that last bit was NEVER forgive NOR forget!

The Giddy Tigress says: Oh yeah, this clarification kinda makes your comment clearer…like mud-clear. heh.

]]> By: LB http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17606 LB Wed, 02 Apr 2008 11:51:30 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17606 Yeah, unfortunately, I am neither here nor there. Sometimes, I forgive, and forget, other times, I forgive, but not forget, or forget but not forgive, and even worse, forget and forgive!! Now, which of these evils are the lesser? *grin* <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: I'm too confused to comment... :P</strong> Yeah, unfortunately, I am neither here nor there. Sometimes, I forgive, and forget, other times, I forgive, but not forget, or forget but not forgive, and even worse, forget and forgive!! Now, which of these evils are the lesser? *grin*

The Giddy Tigress says: I’m too confused to comment… :P

]]> By: ehon http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17591 ehon Wed, 02 Apr 2008 09:39:05 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17591 it's so easy to hate, and difficult to love it's not even funny. sometimes all we need is that extra effort to be nice, but sometimes it seems almost impossible. oh well. humans. :) <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: Most of the time, although we realize how important it is to just step back and look at the whole picture, the reality is such that we feel non-love initially.</strong> it’s so easy to hate, and difficult to love it’s not even funny. sometimes all we need is that extra effort to be nice, but sometimes it seems almost impossible. oh well. humans. :)

The Giddy Tigress says: Most of the time, although we realize how important it is to just step back and look at the whole picture, the reality is such that we feel non-love initially.

]]> By: bs http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17566 bs Wed, 02 Apr 2008 07:32:08 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17566 Machines have less problems. I'd like to be a machine, wouldn't you? (Andy Warhol) <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: *in horror* No, I would not like to be a machine! Have you gone nuts after eating those rum balls yesterday? *grins*</strong> Machines have less problems. I’d like to be a machine, wouldn’t you? (Andy Warhol)

The Giddy Tigress says: *in horror* No, I would not like to be a machine! Have you gone nuts after eating those rum balls yesterday? *grins*

]]> By: parisb http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17562 parisb Wed, 02 Apr 2008 07:10:41 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17562 I went through lots of soul searching too. In the end, I chose to forgive (in a manner of speaking) but not to forget. <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: I guess that's what I normally would do. I tend to hold grudges.</strong> I went through lots of soul searching too. In the end, I chose to forgive (in a manner of speaking) but not to forget.

The Giddy Tigress says: I guess that’s what I normally would do. I tend to hold grudges.

]]> By: eastcoastlife http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17560 eastcoastlife Wed, 02 Apr 2008 06:11:52 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17560 I don't forgive nor forget... I retaliate. They hurt me I hurt them back 3 times. Who asks them to start it? <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: Wah... *makes mental note to never ever step on ecl's tail*.... as if I don't know that already!</strong> I don’t forgive nor forget… I retaliate. They hurt me I hurt them back 3 times. Who asks them to start it?

The Giddy Tigress says: Wah… *makes mental note to never ever step on ecl’s tail*…. as if I don’t know that already!

]]> By: Jemima http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/comment-page-1/#comment-17555 Jemima Wed, 02 Apr 2008 05:25:07 +0000 http://giddytigers.com/2008/04/02/the-silent-sufferer-speaks/#comment-17555 I forgave & then I moved on because I don't want to be back in square one of having to deal with their hypocrisy again.. *regardless of what the Good Lord said to me* <strong>The Giddy Tigress says: The forgiving part is the hardest, don't you think so?</strong> I forgave & then I moved on because I don’t want to be back in square one of having to deal with their hypocrisy again.. *regardless of what the Good Lord said to me*

The Giddy Tigress says: The forgiving part is the hardest, don’t you think so?

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